I've been getting lots of comments/messages on my blast of late... :) Sure it has got some serious attention ... LOL
Well, those who "know" me sure does know I mean it. Except for a very few "selected" ones, I have always loved my friends here - I still do and have tried to be very polite with each of them! And I have felt that most of them do have same feeling towards me as well.
So why me, a married man, father of two still do have fantasies and thoughts of some serious romance? it all depends on how me, as a single entity define love which is the root cause of all these emotions. Many have tried to define it, let me see if can do it.
I love my parents, I love my wife, I love my kids, I love my friends, I love trekking, I love photography, I love eating ice creams.... the list of what I love just goes on ! :)
But see, I would never dare to give up my wife for an ice cream...LOL so as you move on as an individual through different phases of your life, the precedence and the priorities on who and how u love changes but most of them remain unchanged!
Now comes my perception of romance. I am very sensitive and do love sensual things as well. I believe lust and romance co-exists which many may disagree with. Its a thin red line which separates a pervert and a sweet rascal...LOL. I prefer to be the later. Its when u cross that line when you start "using" your friends here than "meeting". It might still look hazy, the reason is... I just don't know why I am so romantic... guess that’s the way I was molded ...LOL
When you love some one, you never intend to cause them any harm - neither physically, nor mentally. And there are some, who would never express their love for what ever silly reason it may be. I find it so damn silly… I mean, what’s the use if the one you love never feel about it? It’s like you have the most powerful weapon in your hand you don’t know how to operate it. I like expressing myself and let the other person know how I feel – if it doesn’t hurt or annoy the other person. Love is one such emotion which never gets dried out, the more you give the more you get it back. That’s why I say love all, as if it’s your last chance!
Well, those who "know" me sure does know I mean it. Except for a very few "selected" ones, I have always loved my friends here - I still do and have tried to be very polite with each of them! And I have felt that most of them do have same feeling towards me as well.
So why me, a married man, father of two still do have fantasies and thoughts of some serious romance? it all depends on how me, as a single entity define love which is the root cause of all these emotions. Many have tried to define it, let me see if can do it.
I love my parents, I love my wife, I love my kids, I love my friends, I love trekking, I love photography, I love eating ice creams.... the list of what I love just goes on ! :)
But see, I would never dare to give up my wife for an ice cream...LOL so as you move on as an individual through different phases of your life, the precedence and the priorities on who and how u love changes but most of them remain unchanged!
Now comes my perception of romance. I am very sensitive and do love sensual things as well. I believe lust and romance co-exists which many may disagree with. Its a thin red line which separates a pervert and a sweet rascal...LOL. I prefer to be the later. Its when u cross that line when you start "using" your friends here than "meeting". It might still look hazy, the reason is... I just don't know why I am so romantic... guess that’s the way I was molded ...LOL
When you love some one, you never intend to cause them any harm - neither physically, nor mentally. And there are some, who would never express their love for what ever silly reason it may be. I find it so damn silly… I mean, what’s the use if the one you love never feel about it? It’s like you have the most powerful weapon in your hand you don’t know how to operate it. I like expressing myself and let the other person know how I feel – if it doesn’t hurt or annoy the other person. Love is one such emotion which never gets dried out, the more you give the more you get it back. That’s why I say love all, as if it’s your last chance!
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"You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you really lived are the moments when you have done things in the spirit of love. "
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